Making Friends on the Fediverse

Getting Started on Alternative Social Media

When you first sign up to a new social media site such as Diaspora, Friendica or Mastodon, it can feel a bit lonely. There are lots of ways you can make new friends and see more posts to read and comment on:

Introduce yourself

When you first sign up, post a little bit about yourself along with the hashtags #NewHere and #Introductions. Many existing users are on the lookout for these hashtags and will welcome you, perhaps offering to answer any questions you have. Make sure the visibility of this post is set to “public”, otherwise no one will see it.

Use hashtags

The best way to attract attention on new social media is to add a # sign in front of whatever topic you want to discuss in the post. For example, if you want to talk about basketball include #basketball somewhere in your post. Some people put hashtags in the middle of what they are saying, others put them in a separate list at the end, but it doesn’t really matter as long as they’re included somewhere. The more relevant hashtags you have in your post, the more likely someone is to see your post and respond.

Follow people

Don’t be shy about following others. On federated social media, your posts become more visible if you follow more people. Also remember to set your post’s visibility to “public” if you want it to reach the widest audience.

Follow hashtags

If you search for a hashtag (for example #basketball) many sites will then give you the option of following or saving this hashtag. Every time someone includes a followed/saved hashtag in their posts, it will appear in your stream. On Friendica this option is a + sign just below the search box, and on Diaspora it’s a “follow #basketball” button.

Browse the Public Stream

Most alternative social media include an option to see an unfiltered random selection of the latest public posts from anyone on the service. You can find this under “Local Timeline”/”Federated Timeline” on Mastodon, “Local Community”/”Global Community” on Friendica and “Public Activity” on Diaspora. Bear in mind these will be totally unfiltered, so be careful, but you can sometimes find very interesting posts this way.